{"id":9837,"date":"2017-03-14T06:00:52","date_gmt":"2017-03-14T10:00:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/candostreet.com\/blog-parents\/?p=9837"},"modified":"2017-03-14T17:10:38","modified_gmt":"2017-03-14T21:10:38","slug":"bullying-prevention-begins-with-young-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/bullying-prevention-begins-with-young-children\/","title":{"rendered":"Bullying Prevention Begins with Young Children"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1><\/h1>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #003366;\"><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/candostreet.com\/blog-parents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/Scene_Living-Room.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-9849 \" src=\"https:\/\/candostreet.com\/blog-parents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/Scene_Living-Room-1024x685.jpg\" alt=\"bullying\" width=\"476\" height=\"318\" srcset=\"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/Scene_Living-Room-1024x685.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/Scene_Living-Room-300x201.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 476px) 100vw, 476px\" \/><\/a>Bullying is a national epidemic. Bullying can have long term serious outcomes.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h1>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003366;\">stopbulling.gov, a federal government website managed by the <a style=\"color: #003366;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.hhs.gov\">U.S. Department of Health &amp; Human Services<\/a> shares the following information on beginning bullying prevention in early childhood.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003366;\"><strong>Early Childhood <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Early childhood often marks the first opportunity for young children to interact with each other. Between the ages of 3 and 5, kids are learning how to get along with each other, cooperate, share, and understand their feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #003366;\"><em><strong>Young children may be aggressive and act out when they are angry or don\u2019t get what they want, but this is not bullying. Still, there are ways to help children.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003366;\"><strong>Helping Young Children Get Along with Others<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Parents, school staff, and other adults can help young children develop skills for getting along with others in age-appropriate ways.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Model positive ways for young children to make friends. For example, practice pleasant ways that children can ask to join others in play and take turns in games. Coach older children to help reinforce these behaviors as well. Praise children for appropriate behavior. Help young children understand what behaviors are friendly.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Help young children learn the consequences of certain actions in terms they can understand. For example, say \u201cif you don&#8217;t share, other children may not want to play with you.\u201d Encourage young children to tell an adult if they are treated in a way that makes them feel uncomfortable, upset or unhappy, or if they witness other children being harmed.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Set clear rules for behavior and monitor children&#8217;s interactions carefully. Step in quickly to stop aggressive behavior or redirect it before it occurs.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Use age-appropriate consequences for aggressive behavior. Young children should be encouraged to say &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry&#8221; whenever they hurt a peer, even accidentally. The apology should also be paired with an action. For example, young children could help rebuild a knocked over block structure or replace a torn paper or crayons with new ones.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #003366;\"><em><strong>We all can contribute to stopping behaviors that lead to bullying, especially if we begin early in a child&#8217;s development.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #003366;\"><em><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h3>\n<div class=\"wp-socializer wpsr-buttons\"><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-facebook\"><div class=\"fb-share-button\" data-href=\"\" data-layout=\"button\"><\/div><\/span><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-twitter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share\" class=\"twitter-share-button\" data-show-count=\"false\" data-related=\"\" data-url=\"\" data-size=\"small\" data-via=\"\" data-hashtags=\"\">Tweet<\/a><\/span><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-google_plus\"><div class=\"g-plusone\" data-size=\"medium\" data-annotation=\"none\" ><\/div><\/span><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-linkedin\"><script type=\"IN\/Share\" data-url=\"\" data-counter=\"none\"><\/script><\/span><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-pocket\"><a data-pocket-label=\"pocket\" data-pocket-count=\"none\" class=\"pocket-btn\" data-save-url=\"\" data-lang=\"en\">Pocket<\/a><script type=\"text\/javascript\">!function(d,i){if(!d.getElementById(i)){var j=d.createElement(\"script\");j.id=i;j.src=\"https:\/\/widgets.getpocket.com\/v1\/j\/btn.js?v=1\";var w=d.getElementById(i);d.body.appendChild(j);}}(document,\"pocket-btn-js\");<\/script><\/span><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bullying is a national epidemic.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-socializer wpsr-buttons\"><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-facebook\"><div class=\"fb-share-button\" data-href=\"\" data-layout=\"button\"><\/div><\/span><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-twitter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share\" class=\"twitter-share-button\" data-show-count=\"false\" data-related=\"\" data-url=\"\" data-size=\"small\" data-via=\"\" data-hashtags=\"\">Tweet<\/a><\/span><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-google_plus\"><div class=\"g-plusone\" data-size=\"medium\" data-annotation=\"none\" ><\/div><\/span><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-linkedin\"><script type=\"IN\/Share\" data-url=\"\" data-counter=\"none\"><\/script><\/span><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-pocket\"><a data-pocket-label=\"pocket\" data-pocket-count=\"none\" class=\"pocket-btn\" data-save-url=\"\" data-lang=\"en\">Pocket<\/a><script type=\"text\/javascript\">!function(d,i){if(!d.getElementById(i)){var j=d.createElement(\"script\");j.id=i;j.src=\"https:\/\/widgets.getpocket.com\/v1\/j\/btn.js?v=1\";var w=d.getElementById(i);d.body.appendChild(j);}}(document,\"pocket-btn-js\");<\/script><\/span><\/div>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[96],"tags":[1887,1927,1810,255,444,1885,1886,1907,1809,1811,422],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9837"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9837"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9837\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10773,"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9837\/revisions\/10773"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9837"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9837"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9837"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}