{"id":2382,"date":"2011-08-22T06:00:02","date_gmt":"2011-08-22T10:00:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/candostreet.com\/blog-parents\/?p=2382"},"modified":"2011-08-21T16:21:51","modified_gmt":"2011-08-21T20:21:51","slug":"and-where-does-your-child-sleep","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/and-where-does-your-child-sleep\/","title":{"rendered":"Where Does Your Preschool Child Sleep?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Where<\/a>Some young children are perfectly content to sleep in their cribs or junior beds whether they are alone in a room or with siblings. <\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h1>\n

Others may go to bed in their crib or bed but wake screaming and cannot be comforted, except by getting into mommy and daddy bed and spending the rest of the night there. Still others will not even start out the night in their own bed and the only way anyone in the house is going to get a night’s sleep is if little one gets to go to sleep in mommy and daddy’s bed.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

In an article written by Dr. Sears, a practicing pediatrician for over 30 years and father of eight children, he speaks to the concerns that many parents have about allowing their preschool child to sleep with them by answering a question from a reader who wrote,”Our three-year-old wakes up in the middle of the night and either demands to sleep in our bed or insists that Mommy comes sleep in her room. How can we break this habit?”<\/p>\n

Dr. Sears answers by advising the parent that she needs to determine if\u00a0 her child’s desire to sleep with her is a habit or a need. He reminds parents that nighttime can be scary for little people.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h2>\n

If it isn’t fear that is the cause of wanting parent contact during the night time hours, than what could be the reason? Dr. Sears suggests that the need for nighttime contact may be particularly strong if a child had little or no contact with the parent(s) during the day.<\/p>\n

The key is to find a solution that meets both a parent’s need for privacy and sleep and a child’s need for attachment and security.<\/p>\n

Here are some suggestions Dr. Sears made for addressing the sleep situation:<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h3>\n