{"id":1810,"date":"2015-04-28T06:00:24","date_gmt":"2015-04-28T10:00:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/candostreet.com\/blog-parents\/?p=1810"},"modified":"2015-04-27T07:13:00","modified_gmt":"2015-04-27T11:13:00","slug":"how-old-is-old-enough-to-stay-home-alone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/how-old-is-old-enough-to-stay-home-alone\/","title":{"rendered":"Old Enough to Stay Home Alone?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1><a href=\"https:\/\/candostreet.com\/blog-parents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/safekidslogo.gif\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-1505 size-full\" title=\"safekidslogo\" src=\"https:\/\/candostreet.com\/blog-parents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/safekidslogo.gif\" alt=\"alone\" width=\"230\" height=\"142\" \/><\/a><em><span style=\"color: #003366;\">There are few states that have laws stating how old a child must be before he or she can be left at home alone.<\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n<h2><em><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Yet, the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.safekids.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">National SAFEKIDS Campaign<\/a> states that no child under 12 should be left home alone, no matter how mature they appear to be. They advise:<br \/>\n<\/span><\/em><\/h2>\n<h3><em><strong><span style=\"color: #003366;\">While 12 years is the earliest age to even consider that a child can stay home alone, each child is different and may not be ready at 12. Once the decision is made to begin allowing a child to stay at home alone the following suggestions can help insure a safe, comfortable experience for parent and child:<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Practice by letting your child stay at home for brief periods of time<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Always leave a phone number where you can be contacted<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Call your child regularly while they are alone<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Prepare your child for staying home alone. A good book to review together\u00a0 is <a style=\"color: #003366;\" href=\"http:\/\/singleparents.about.com\/od\/havingfun\/gr\/homealonereview.htm\">Dottie Raymer&#8217;s <em>Staying Home Alone<\/em><\/a>, and discuss what it means to make safe choices.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Be sure your child understands your expectations about he or she is to use alone time. Review what is and is not permitted, such as:<\/span>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">TV viewing<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Answer the phone<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Cooking or making a snack<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Using the computer<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Entertaining friends<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Going out or visit friends<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Make sure your home is safe for your child:<\/span>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Keep medications in a locked cabinet<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">If you have guns, keep them a locked cabinet<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Correct anything your child could get hurt on<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Practice correct behavior in emergencies such as:<\/span>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">What to do in an emergency<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">What to do if someone were trying to get into the house or apartment<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\">What to do in case of a fire<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003366;\"><em><strong>Before you make the decision to try letting your child be home alone, ask your child if he or she feels confident and ready to stay home alone. If he or she is hesitant, hire a sitter and revisit being home alone in six or more months.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003366;\">Sources: <a style=\"color: #003366;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.nccic.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">National Child Care Information Center<\/a>, <a style=\"color: #003366;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.safekids.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">National SAFEKIDS Campaign<\/a>, Jennifer Wolf, About.com<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-socializer wpsr-buttons\"><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-facebook\"><div class=\"fb-share-button\" data-href=\"\" data-layout=\"button\"><\/div><\/span><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-twitter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share\" class=\"twitter-share-button\" data-show-count=\"false\" data-related=\"\" data-url=\"\" data-size=\"small\" data-via=\"\" data-hashtags=\"\">Tweet<\/a><\/span><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-google_plus\"><div class=\"g-plusone\" data-size=\"medium\" data-annotation=\"none\" ><\/div><\/span><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-linkedin\"><script type=\"IN\/Share\" data-url=\"\" data-counter=\"none\"><\/script><\/span><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-pocket\"><a data-pocket-label=\"pocket\" data-pocket-count=\"none\" class=\"pocket-btn\" data-save-url=\"\" data-lang=\"en\">Pocket<\/a><script type=\"text\/javascript\">!function(d,i){if(!d.getElementById(i)){var j=d.createElement(\"script\");j.id=i;j.src=\"https:\/\/widgets.getpocket.com\/v1\/j\/btn.js?v=1\";var w=d.getElementById(i);d.body.appendChild(j);}}(document,\"pocket-btn-js\");<\/script><\/span><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How old should a child be before he or she can stay home alone?<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-socializer wpsr-buttons\"><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-facebook\"><div class=\"fb-share-button\" data-href=\"\" data-layout=\"button\"><\/div><\/span><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-twitter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share\" class=\"twitter-share-button\" data-show-count=\"false\" data-related=\"\" data-url=\"\" data-size=\"small\" data-via=\"\" data-hashtags=\"\">Tweet<\/a><\/span><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-google_plus\"><div class=\"g-plusone\" data-size=\"medium\" data-annotation=\"none\" ><\/div><\/span><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-linkedin\"><script type=\"IN\/Share\" data-url=\"\" data-counter=\"none\"><\/script><\/span><span class=\"wpsr-btn wpsr-srvc-pocket\"><a data-pocket-label=\"pocket\" data-pocket-count=\"none\" class=\"pocket-btn\" data-save-url=\"\" data-lang=\"en\">Pocket<\/a><script type=\"text\/javascript\">!function(d,i){if(!d.getElementById(i)){var j=d.createElement(\"script\");j.id=i;j.src=\"https:\/\/widgets.getpocket.com\/v1\/j\/btn.js?v=1\";var w=d.getElementById(i);d.body.appendChild(j);}}(document,\"pocket-btn-js\");<\/script><\/span><\/div>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1812],"tags":[362,1813,1927,444,361,1885,1886,1999,363,360],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1810"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1810"}],"version-history":[{"count":31,"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1810\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9865,"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1810\/revisions\/9865"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1810"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1810"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/candostreetny.com\/blog-parents\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1810"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}